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Get off on the right foot |
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See the short Note for Parents |
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Don't miss the fascinating Introduction except it's not called that |
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Devour your new power and indulge the author while he calls you names |
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Parents: Can't Live With 'Em, Can't Live Without 'Em |
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Meet Homo sapiens painus neckum |
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Discover if all parents take the Hypocritical Oath |
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Learn why 14 + 40 = Bad News |
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Surround yourself with Jealousy and Great Expectations |
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Grab hold of Gimme Gimme and the Responsibility Gap |
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Then chow down on some Hard Roles and Double Binds |
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Teenagers: Can't Live With 'Em |
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Extra! Extra! Read all about it! Innate behaviors of the Adolescent Species |
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Learn your Rights (and Wrongs) as a Card-Carrying Teenager |
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Forget the Three R's and discover the Four B's |
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Topics include: Peers, Fears, and Tears |
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Plus, at no extra charge: School, Grades, Ear Wax, and Nose Hairs |
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Getting Down to Basics: Issues at the core of every parent-child relationship |
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It's 1978: Do you know where your parents are? Bringing up parents who will never again say, ``When I was your age....'' New uses for old siblings |
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How your parents' past affects your present |
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Every Kid Needs a Trust Fund |
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The importance of trust funds in today's domestic economy |
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How to make deposits and avoid withdrawals |
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Your Freedom: Their Responsibility |
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Bringing up parents who will let you do what you want |
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Learn why the Land of the Free calls for a Home of the Brave |
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Sweeter than candy! Morsels of meritorious manipulation designed to give you (and your parents) a bounty of benefit |
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Time-tested tactics practiced by the experts: Teenagers |
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Commit an Act of Goodness |
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Know when to get help and when to boo-hoo |
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How to choose your parents |
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What, me apologize? Only if you don't read this section |
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Taking Charge of the Fight Brigade: Strategies for Better Relationships |
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It's Not What You Say, It's How You Say It |
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Wipe that style off your face! The importance of approach and attitude |
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The Medium is the Message |
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Launch a communications revolution and bring up parents who won't nag, scold, and attack |
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Discover how to change your tune and feel the boon |
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Stop! In the Name of Love |
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Speech of the Devils! How to deal with your parents' all-time-champion-guaranteed-to-infuriate-and-drive-any-healthy-kid-up-the-wall expressions |
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Plus, at no extra cost, things kids say designed to make parents see red!! (Not so you can use them, so you can avoid them.) |
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Troubleshooting: Getting to Trouble Before It Gets to You |
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A gold mine of information for heading trouble off at the Pass |
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What to do in the heat of the fight, or when you're absolutely right |
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How to tell if you're out to lunch |
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(Imagine that!) Meet the Respectable Lie and put yourself on trial |
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Learn the piece de resistance of parent-raising: Allowing Dad His Neurosis |
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Close Encounters of the Worst Kind: Solving Family Problems |
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Full speed ahead! Take the lead! ``Mother, please! I'd rather do it myself!'' Less is more |
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A new look at Crime and Punishment |
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P.S.S.'s: Six steps to a family of winners |
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You show me yours, and I'll show you mine: Sniffing out those hidden agendas |
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Cures for the Common Conflict: A Problem Appendix |
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Not to be taken out, though |
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Problems of inner space and outer limits |
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Problems of the home-grown variety |
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Drench yourself in this b-rainstorm of suggestions and clean up your conflicts |
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Don't get all lathered up; use this guide to hose down tension and build bridges over troubled waters |
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| Read this Last! The first word on the last word |
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| Index |
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| About the Author |
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